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hurts to lose fish but kills to lose this
hurts to lose fish but kills to lose this
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after 2 1/2 years of marriage we have split and starting divorce papers . fish are going to be a thing of the past as i dont know if i'll stay in kansas or move to iowa , either way i'm not really into it atm. so i wanted to say thanks for the friends i've made and goodbye .
posted by: harvick fan

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Oct 5th, 2008
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Visitor Comments
***kylie *** » posted 2008/10/05 - 08:51  
holy crap harvick so sorry to hear.. i am so sad for you .. make sure you keep in touch with us all.
bip_ 4u » posted 2008/10/05 - 09:05  
Brian, this breaks my heart to hear. I feel for you. So sorry this is happening. You have my email, If you want/need to talk or just to bs. Please keep in touch.
James Martin » posted 2008/10/05 - 11:19  
You can EMail too, I've been in this situation before....Sell the fish, keep some tanks and equip, when the dust settles and you're in a better frame of mind (which will happen in time) you'll want to keep fish again... Time heals all wounds eventually. At one point I had 15 tanks...Went down to zero Now I'm back to 7.
Dan Noon » posted 2008/10/05 - 11:47  
sorry Brian. i've been through this a couple of times and it sucks. if you need to blow off steam, you have my email address. keep in touch bud
Uli and Ria Reusser » posted 2008/10/05 - 12:04
keep your head dude,
Uli and Ria Reusser » posted 2008/10/05 - 12:18  
go to the bar with just $10. Buy a couple of beers,,,its talladaga.
Jerry Goebert » posted 2008/10/05 - 15:46  
Good luck...and fish/fish talk can be good therapy
frankie nieves » posted 2008/10/05 - 18:25  
harvey. feeling bad about you. Keep in mind that some one stills love you. God! 7 year ago i had a divorce, it was not easy, but today everything is ok with God in my corner and better thing cooming to my life. Gonna pray for you.
Sharon Sparks » posted 2008/10/05 - 18:30  
sorry to hear...fish are very good therapy...keeps your mind somewhere else ..everything will be okay in time will pray for ya...
Korah Kuriakose » posted 2008/10/05 - 19:01  
hey harvick fan, we dont know each other a lot, neither am i married.. but i feel for you.. i been through heartache too.. hang in there bro, life had other plans for you.. whatever happens, happens for the best..
s m » posted 2008/10/05 - 20:45  
Bummer harvick.
been there done that...just keep on the right side of the fence through it!!!!!!!! YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN ;)
Khoi Duong » posted 2008/10/05 - 22:55
I'm so sorry to hear about this. keep your chin up though.
Roger Hopper » posted 2008/10/06 - 02:54
Wow Brian. I am so sorry buddy.. Man it is hard but not impossible. You will make it with friends and family. Plz keep in touch.
karrie edwards » posted 2008/10/06 - 06:43
omg, damn, i have only been gone about 3 days, and this happens. I am so sorry to hear about this, and always remember, you have good friends here.
harvick fan » posted 2008/10/06 - 23:32  
thanks all , i've been through this before but the sucky part is how close i got to her grandkids . been depressed and going on little sleep and food for the last week . and no sandy i've worked to hard to stay clean and i wont jeopradize that . i'm hoping some time apart will get her to thinking about reconcilliation . but i'll be ok . going to iowa to see family for a couple of days and try to get my head and heart together .
Scott Fisher » posted 2008/10/06 - 23:36
hang in there ...
s m » posted 2008/10/06 - 23:56  
glad to hear ;)
Cichlid Storm » posted 2008/10/07 - 00:04  
Very sorry to hear Brian. I went through sorta the same 4 years ago. Never an easy thing, hopefully everything will work out as god has intended for it to.
(- AmerAsian -) » posted 2008/10/07 - 06:31
Sorry about your situation Harvick. I was with someone for 6 yrs and she ended up doing things your not suppose to when your with someone,but she did and I finally had enough and I left her. I know it hurts and it may take awhile for you to start feeling better but time does heal and having little underwater buddies to come home to helps. Hang in there and hope to see you back on eventually.
Trav E. » posted 2008/10/08 - 01:03
sorry bro. also my bad when you ran through town, I am currently working 2 jobs and don't have time to sleep. If in town again let me know...
harvick fan » posted 2008/10/28 - 18:39  
just an up date i'm doing good , got an apartment , set up 4 tanks so far and seeing someone else . ladies when you tell your ex or whatever to "move on " be prepared for just that ! lishas having a fit and i'm living my life !!!!!!!!!!!! see ya soon when i get the net hooked up .
Dan Noon » posted 2008/10/28 - 18:42  
great stuff Brian, glad your are well. looking forward to new pics
bip_ 4u » posted 2008/10/28 - 18:48  
Good news. You deserve to be happy. Can't wait to see you around here more often again. Keep taken care Brian.

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